I've been in my new job now for 4 weeks. At the moment i am really enjoying it. I work a mixture of shifts from 8am to 10.30pm 7 days a week.
Although the project is to help homeless 16-25 yr olds, the reality is most are 16-18. Some of the stuff I have come across is amazing. It makes me realise how lucky I am. Some have genuine issues as they were abused at a young age and some have just been made homeless because their parents have split up and can't afford to look after them.
The most distrubing thing though is the waiting list. We gaurentee 6 months accomodation. The theory is; within this time we give that young person the lifeskills to make sure they are never homeless again. Some spend this time to get proper counseling and psychological help, others need this time to learn about budgeting, general household tasks and finding work etc.
Anyway. Before taking this job I had to think long and hard. I've come from a background which was pressurised and focused purely around making money. At no time during my day was I worreid about other peoples feelings or even making friends. As long as I earnt my bonus, I was happy. It was also a cut throat industry where only the fittest survived. It was regular practice to get screwed over by my work colleagues and if I got one up on them even better.
However I liked this. I knew the score and simply played the game.
Now, my life is different. I am in an industry which focuses around people. Everyone at work is friendly. Most are welcoming and all talk to me in a polite, gentle manner.
This is improving my personal life a lot too. Instead of coming home in a bad mood, stressed and spending the evening worrying and planning the following day, I now arrive home relaxed and content.
And the best bit of all, for the first time in ten years i am now working 40 hours per week and not 80! This has had a massive effect on my life. I'm starting to walk the dogs more, eat dinner at sensible times with my wife and now have more time to do the things I want to do.
One of which is playing poker!
Before I started this job, I considered the pro's and cons. One of the plus's was the hours. Before I would leave for work around 7am, arrive home at 7pm and then work on the laptop until 11pm+. I never got time in the evening to do much and when I did I had to play cash tables as I couldn't guarentee my time.
Now I am working shifts I am able to get to the gym a few times a week which is a bonus. But best of all, and I didn't realise this fully until last night, because I sometimes finish at 10.30pm, I can now go to the casino to play poker! Even better than that, I am arriving sober!
So, last night I went with a group of mates to the casino for some food and realised that this could be the break I'm looking for. I can finish work and visit on my own during the week probably on a weekly basis.
Although I've been playing poker for years, very little has been live so this will be something new.
It could be a massive learning curve. We will have to wait and see.
Of course, because of the change of career it's also a change of salary. I'm now on far less and therefore got to take better care of my bankroll.
I'll keep ya updated on my progress. Hopefully I will play my first session this Tuesday or Wednesday, so wish me luck!